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Thursday, December 21, 2017

8 most common reasons people file divorce

 
It is always recommended to get out of the malfunctioning relationship than to suffer for the whole life. But yes, repercussion might get severe, both in terms of financially and emotionally. If the couple has a child or children, sometimes, it gets difficult to come to this solution.

Here are some of the common reasons for divorce cases being filed and solved every year.

(i)    Infidelity

Honesty and trust are a MUST in a relationship. Many times, it is seen that people tend to have the extra-marital affair after long years of marriage. Neglect, ignorance, boredom, and under-appreciation are some of the common causes of an extra-marital affair. Thus, one moves forward towards new friendship, spending quality time with a new friend. Ultimately, getting into a romantic relationship with this new friend.

(ii)    Communication gap

Communication is the most important part of this relationship. Good communication leads to a strong marriage. Whereas, not being able to communicate quickly leads to acrimony and frustration. Screaming at your partner, not talking properly throughout the day is some of the alarming activities for getting ditched in a marriage.

(iii)    Constant argument

The relationship gets killed over arguing about small things about kids to daily routines. Many times, it is seen that couples argue over the same things again and again. They feel as if they are not being heard or appreciated by their partner. Many times, it is hard to see the other person’s point of view leading to loads of argument. Ultimately, no resolution is taken on the issue of the argument.

(iv)    Money

There is a saying, “Money makes people do funny things”. It is indeed so very true. Everyone is from different spending habit with different financial goals. Considerably, one partner makes more money than that of the other, causing a lot of power struggle. Often, it forces a marriage to go towards a breakpoint. Drawing towards divorce, money, and stress goes hand-in-hand for many couples.

(v)    Unrealistic Expectation

It is often seen that couples go to the marriage with high expectations. They expect their spouse and marriage to live up to their imagination. Ultimately, when they fail to have it, they tend to break their marriage out of stress and strains.

(vi)    Lack of equality

It is seen that one partner takes all the responsibility to live up to the expectation of the other. On the other side, the other partner does not share as much as responsibility as like as the other. Negotiation is a must in this situation. Everyone must take equal responsibility to sustain their marriage. Everyone must respect their spouses to maintain a harmonious and joyful relationship.

(vii)    Mental preparation for marriage

Surprisingly, many couples reported that they were not prepared for their marriage during divorce proceedings. It is seen that the divorce rates are highest among couples in their 20s. Major divorces occur in the first 15 years of marriage.

(viii)    Abuses

We often get to hear about physical and mental abuses happening among the couples. It is one of the saddest parts of the marital reality. Whatsoever might be the reason, one shouldn’t tolerate any kind of abuses in a relationship. It is very important to get removed from such situation safely with proper settlement and agreements on the same.

Summary: Garfield Logan Law combats for the best settlement and agreement for marriage on your behalf. Not only that, they protect you from pre and post-marital agreements too. Get in touch with them at andrea@loganlawalc.com or call 949-489-1251 for more.

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